What if there were no closets for LGBTQ+ persons to come out from? Whose closet is it anyway? Why does society choose to hideaway any human experience in the closet? What if rather than coming out to you, you became an ally and earn your invitation in, by creating safe spaces for the Queer person around you? Dr. Lulu, aka the "Momatrician", is a Nigerian-born, paediatrician and mum of a non-binary transgender young adult. She is a life coach, TEDx speaker, author LGBTQIA+ advocate and youth suicide prevention activist.